just when you think it's right

Does it ever occur to you that just when you think it's right, it's actually not right?

Does it ever occur to you that just when you think it's right, it's actually  an excuse?

Many time, we think that it feels so right. how can it be wrong? When the things that feel so right, how can it be wrong? Than, you are wrong. Something that can feel very right can be very wrong from the start, but just because you don't see it, feel it; or you just simply want to make an excuse not to face the fact. People always ask, do you believe in True love? My answer is always, WHY NOT? But true love WAITS.

Why aren't people believing in love these days? It's just simply because they did not learn to love themselves yet, and they rush into loving someone; wanting that person to love them back. And usually it's both parties that will feel the same way. Tell me than, both also want to take love from each other, who is gonna give love? No one, and end up, both getting hurt, wounded badly by love, and blame it on LOVE itself. Love does not have the power. It is the people itself that has the power, but why don't people see it? Love is a feeling we feel everyday, we can't deny the fact. But we can manage it and handle it well. 

Many times people will tell you, love is equal to sex; and sex is equal to love. Have some sense, people. Ladies, wake up! Stop living in the wonderland, stop believing in what is NOT TRUE.  Who tells you that, if you really love that guy, you MUST sleep with him? Th guy himself? The movie you watch? or.. how the world portray love? The point is, if the guy really love you, he will not even dare to put his hand on you for he will RESPECT you. A love who truly love you will not need your body to feel love. The guy will know that, you really love him just by looking at him through your eyes. Love is something, we can feel it. we're all sensitive to it. So, tell me, does it make any differences if he ask you to sleep with him? Sometime, you might think it's alright, but you know deep inside you; you're hurting, you just wanna run away. why than, make yourself so miserable? You only have one chance, in a physically form, once you lose your virginity, you lose it. If only you could hear those girls that have gone through the pain. If only they will come out and testify and tell their pain. 

I've so many friends who will call and cry to me over the phone. At that point, i wish i could take their pain away; at time point, i wish i could help them out but.. i know i couldn't. They suffer, they condemn themselves, they.. A thousand thoughts come to them. Guys, have you ever wonder what if it happen to you? i simply just don't understand why do you want to do this to someone you love? dont't you realize you're hurting the girl? Think about it for a moment, what if it's your own daughter? Will you allow some random guy to do that to your OWN daughter? Why than so selfish? It's not your body, you don't have the right to demand it. 

So, ladies and Gentleman, made a very wise decision. Ladies, stop believing in the lies of the world. The world has twisted so many things. It is a grey world but don't live with it. You are only living in a grey world but you don't need to live in it. Get out from it. Stop living in pain. Guys who tell you sex is equals to love, slap them on their face and walk away. You will find a better one, trust me. All you need is God's love. God's love is the only thing that can feel that empty heart of yours. Gentleman, respect the ladies. Little will you know, by your 'doing', you're actually hurting the girl, u say you love? How irony. *shaking my head* 

Be strong and very courages. stand up for what you believe in, ladies. You have a choice. Make the right choices in life and you will not regret. If you already had make a wrong decision, don't dwell in it. Don't live in your past, is time to move on. :) xoxo!