If only it was you..

Just the thinking of people hurting those Innocent animal made me shed tears. There was a video about a lady killing a few rabbits. She just step on the rabbit... Sometimes i wonder, why are these people like that. Seeing her hurting those rabbits really break my heart to pieces. She doesn't even feel remorse. My heart goes out to these rabbits and as well as the lady. It just make me think that, she is seeking for popularity. Perhaps she think that just by being an animal abuser will made her famous? Perhaps..Perhaps? A million perhaps running through my mind.. 

Sometimes, people can just be so emotionless that we don't feel anything anymore. Sometimes things can happen and yet we no longer feel remorse or having a heart of compassion. The reality hurts, hurts more than anyone can bear. No matter how much we don't want to face it, there are some people out there who are just sick; so sick; so sick till you just don't know what is in their mind.  

Sometimes even seeing those people crying out for help, we just choose to ignore it. We just choose to 'stay out of out business'. It is none of our business, so why than get involved? If it's your mentality now, pls stop having those mentality. Sometimes just by you lending out your hand, you safe a life. You safe a life from being thrown into hell; you safe an innocent life from being miserable. The wound that is in their heart will always be with them, throughout their life. They suffer, they cry in pain; a pain where you can't imagine. A darkness in front of their eyes. The world in front of them is so dark, so shallow and all they could think of is..ending it.

Where is the heart of the people these days? I always ask myself. Somehow, i know i can never find an answer to it but i know, i can make a difference just by listening and lending out my hand. I truly, encourage each and everyone of you to starting having a heart of compassion towards the little things that happen in your life. Sometimes, you might not know you just safe a life! 

If only it was you.. You will know how hard it is to face tomorrow. Don't let it rob the happiness of your loved one. Do something! 

just when you think it's right

Does it ever occur to you that just when you think it's right, it's actually not right?

Does it ever occur to you that just when you think it's right, it's actually  an excuse?

Many time, we think that it feels so right. how can it be wrong? When the things that feel so right, how can it be wrong? Than, you are wrong. Something that can feel very right can be very wrong from the start, but just because you don't see it, feel it; or you just simply want to make an excuse not to face the fact. People always ask, do you believe in True love? My answer is always, WHY NOT? But true love WAITS.

Why aren't people believing in love these days? It's just simply because they did not learn to love themselves yet, and they rush into loving someone; wanting that person to love them back. And usually it's both parties that will feel the same way. Tell me than, both also want to take love from each other, who is gonna give love? No one, and end up, both getting hurt, wounded badly by love, and blame it on LOVE itself. Love does not have the power. It is the people itself that has the power, but why don't people see it? Love is a feeling we feel everyday, we can't deny the fact. But we can manage it and handle it well. 

Many times people will tell you, love is equal to sex; and sex is equal to love. Have some sense, people. Ladies, wake up! Stop living in the wonderland, stop believing in what is NOT TRUE.  Who tells you that, if you really love that guy, you MUST sleep with him? Th guy himself? The movie you watch? or.. how the world portray love? The point is, if the guy really love you, he will not even dare to put his hand on you for he will RESPECT you. A love who truly love you will not need your body to feel love. The guy will know that, you really love him just by looking at him through your eyes. Love is something, we can feel it. we're all sensitive to it. So, tell me, does it make any differences if he ask you to sleep with him? Sometime, you might think it's alright, but you know deep inside you; you're hurting, you just wanna run away. why than, make yourself so miserable? You only have one chance, in a physically form, once you lose your virginity, you lose it. If only you could hear those girls that have gone through the pain. If only they will come out and testify and tell their pain. 

I've so many friends who will call and cry to me over the phone. At that point, i wish i could take their pain away; at time point, i wish i could help them out but.. i know i couldn't. They suffer, they condemn themselves, they.. A thousand thoughts come to them. Guys, have you ever wonder what if it happen to you? i simply just don't understand why do you want to do this to someone you love? dont't you realize you're hurting the girl? Think about it for a moment, what if it's your own daughter? Will you allow some random guy to do that to your OWN daughter? Why than so selfish? It's not your body, you don't have the right to demand it. 

So, ladies and Gentleman, made a very wise decision. Ladies, stop believing in the lies of the world. The world has twisted so many things. It is a grey world but don't live with it. You are only living in a grey world but you don't need to live in it. Get out from it. Stop living in pain. Guys who tell you sex is equals to love, slap them on their face and walk away. You will find a better one, trust me. All you need is God's love. God's love is the only thing that can feel that empty heart of yours. Gentleman, respect the ladies. Little will you know, by your 'doing', you're actually hurting the girl, u say you love? How irony. *shaking my head* 

Be strong and very courages. stand up for what you believe in, ladies. You have a choice. Make the right choices in life and you will not regret. If you already had make a wrong decision, don't dwell in it. Don't live in your past, is time to move on. :) xoxo!

be my valentine!

Love, is a special day, we should celebrate, just you and me..

Love, is a special day, is a good excuse, just you and me.. 

so won't you be my valentine?

hehe. am just being random about it. thought of just having some random words for my starting. hehe. Valentine is next monday. i can feel the love is in the air now. have u ever wonder what love means? Lets check out together what love means. *wink*

Love is Patient, Love is kind;

It does not envy, it does not boast;

It is not something to show off; 

It is not rude and self seeking for pleasure; 

It is not easily angered;

It does not keep the records of your wrong doings;

Love rejoices in the truth and not delight in evil;

It always protects, trust, hopes, and perseveres. 

Love is not something which can be fade away or wash away easily. It is not something we can compromise in. See for yourself whether are u ready to be in a relationship, if you had not have one? And ask yourself, are u treating your partner with respect and learning the value of love at the time, if you already are in a relationship? 

So at here, i would like to end with a great 

HAPPY VALENTINE 

to everyone who reads this. :)